Sunday, November 21, 2010

true love~

Everybody has their own love story..their true love they said...maybe i just not find mine yet... never mind...for me, the real love or true love is  the day Allah makes two heart close together through marriage."cintan-cintun" before marriage for me is not real...everybody can say anything..everything about their love.."untukmu...lautan api sanggup kurenangi...gunung tinggi akan kudaki..lurah jua aku turuni"...haha standard clause..action should go along with words otherwise it will become a "tin kosong"(cakap je lebih tp habuk pon tara) haha like my friend always said...i walk my talk...test your spouse not trust them yet before it proves.haha..

Okey lets proceed to the main agenda...this about a true story of my fathers' classmate when he is in form 6 at SMK Sultan Ismail JB. It's about this girl named Sarah (bukan nama sebenar) who's madly in love with his classmate, Ridzuan. Though she is so fond of him, she never tells her feeling to him but she did hajat preyers and prays to Allah everyday to open his heart to her.
Time passes but still, nothing happen between them. She's still waits and waits...until one day she got to knew that Ridzuan dating her classmate, Salina, a city girl. She was very frustrated but keep going and finished her study with flying colours that allows her to further study at university then graduated and becomes a teacher. Same goes to Ridzuan he did well to then he becomes a banker.
Allah is the greatest in arranging things. He knows better about everything, what is good and what is not for His servant. Ridzuan at last break up with Salina after a long thought. He is a kampung boy who live in very plain and humble life which is totally different with Salina who live with silver spoon. She might accept the way he is but may be not her parents. They are way to different to be together, then they take their own path. After a while, Allah the Almighty move his heart. He, once in a blue moon think of Sarah. With the helps of friends he managed to contact her again and lastly they love that long burried finally grows...they get married and happily ever after.

Here we finally found out that:
1) Pray.When we fond to someone, pray to Allah to makes us together. Don't have to tell others. Doa is the weapon of Muslim. Allah has told us to pray to Him and He will answered the doa immidiately, later or replace him/her with better person.
2) Don't despair and never loose hope. Though we are not destined to be with our lovers, believe that Allah has better arrangement for us. Never takes easy way to shows our despair through stupid things like doing bad in study or smoking or committing suicide. Once you commit suicide on earth you will keep repeating the same things in hell.Nauzubillahhiminzaalik...
3) Allah's love last forever. No matter how much we love our partners we never knows how it will end up. Maybe we will break up before anything happen...
"mungkinkan terputus di tengah jalan mungkin terlerai tanpa ikatan usah ragu dengan takdir"             
                                                                                                          -Aiman-Cinta Terakhir
or we might be together with our partner but we get divorce because of something or the death come.
There it shows that no love last longer than love to Allah SWT. Love Allah, He will always be with us in every beat of our heart...remember Him when we sit or standing...we will never despair in anything cause we have Allah to return anytime anywhre...


"Dan hamba-hamba yang beriman itu berdoa, Wahai Tuhan kami kurniakanlah untuk kami isteri-isteri kami dan anak-anak kami yang jadi penyejuk mata kami dan jadilah kami petuan orang-orang yang muttaqin."

(Surah al-Furqan:74)

Friday, November 5, 2010

firstStep??

first step??heh...
feel kinda awkward to write...nor my specialty neither in my job scope not even my field of interest...
so why did i??
one of the hadith curse one who his day today is worst then yesterday...
its very normal...for people to change according to time...the surroundings...the situation and so many other reasons...
so i take this first step as one of the effort to change.change myself to a better person...
how??
1.to write-->so that i can improve my language (malay,english,etc)
2.to read-->then i can construct a better clause
3.to learn-->that helps me to write an informative pharagraph
4.to befriend-->therefore they will lead me to see through the world in different perspectives
ahha seems to be so much can be benefit from this..
first step has been taken...lets proceed to the next step...